the real.
the unexpected.
the unfiltered.

A Research Study by BLK

A Bold New Era

We asked thousands of Black singles to speak up about sex, dating, relationships, and self-expression... and the results might shock you!

70%

Have considered or engaged in group play

88%

Say oral sex is a must in relationships

53%

Don't want kids or are undecided

71%

Are open to raising a child outside of two-parent household.

80%

Feel judged for how they express themselves while dating.

Significant Findings

IRL Wins

Most Black singles meet their best matches in person, not through friends.

Evolving Gender Roles

70% prefer shared responsibilities over traditional gender roles.

Dating Goes Digital

57% say social media plays a major role in their love life.

Virtual Vibes

Most have tried or are open to phone sex, cam play, or remote-controlled toys.

Fetish Favorites

Hair pulling, toys, and roleplay are the top kinks for Black singles.

Modern Families

71% are open to co-parenting or single-parent households.

"Everybody has a past, but it's the future that

we're trying to obtain."

Future Trends in Black Dating

[SEX & TABOOS]

Kinks & Conversations Get Normalized

[SOCIAL MEDIA & DATING]

Authenticity Over Perfection

[RELATIONSHIPS & MARRIAGE]

The Rise of Friendship-First Dating

[IDENTITY & SELF-EXPRESSION]

The End of Code-Switching in Dating

Looking Ahead:

Key Trends Shaping 2025

[1]

Sex, Fetishes & Taboos:
Black Singles Keep It Spicy

Black singles aren't shy about exploring their desires. Most have tried (or are open to) virtual play, group experiences, and kinks like roleplay and toys.

[2]

Social Media & Dating:
A Love-Hate Relationship

Social media plays a big role in modern dating, with Instagram and Facebook doubling as dating apps. Catfishing and oversharing remain major concerns.

[3]

Relationships, Marriage & The Future of Black Love

Marriage is still on the table, but traditional gender roles are out. Black singles value therapy in relationships and are open to modern family structures.

[4]

Identity, Community & Self-Expression in Love

Black singles crave representation and authenticity but often feel judged in dating spaces. Self-expression through style is key to attracting a match.